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2:30 am, Tuesday, April 21st. Who is in the house?

You wont believe it. I woke up at 2:30am to 2 cops in my room scanning with flashlights. Omo I think say I dey dream. They said the alarm company called them that my alarm went off. I didnt hear anything sha🤦🏽‍♀. They said the alarm was probably silent signal to ADT. Apparently, my back door was wide open. Probably blown open by the wind - which has happened many times before during the day when its not bolted shut. I must have forgotten to bolt the door shut. Thank God o!

Trust & Will

Friday, April 10th 2020, I had time to create my Will. My mom has always been my beneficiary, guardian, executor everything that needed to be designated, however now she is up in age about 74 years old and I am at a loss. Who do I appoint as the executor of my will, I have many friends all of them embodying pieces of what I admire but none I feel like I can impose such a huge burden on. Guardianship needs to be someone who shares same values as me, Lara and I share same values but there is the religious difference. Similar values but different Faith. There is Nkem, I know she will be willing but can't imagine her caring that weight of guardianship and not be overcome by it. Jane, my dear sweet Jane Jane, let me let her live her best life touring the vast beauty the world has to offer. Guardianship is probably best asked of someone who already has kids or wants to have kids. Ayo A - she can handle it, wouldn't that be selfish though? After she had raised hers and some as