Painful Neutrality
7 years of biblical counselling and the clergy chooses neutrality - does not want to pick sides he says. Really?! Should a man of God choose neutrality through the display and evidence of one spouses neglect, infidelity, emotional and physical abuse? Is this position even biblical? Not sure. What I am sure of is what it does to the victim of abuse. Clergy neutrality says your experience does not matter. What you had to endure is not worth taking a clear stand against.
If I were still that girl who needed the church's validation, that will only make me feel invisible. A feeling all so familiar in my marriage.
If I were still that girl who needed the church's validation, that will only make me feel invisible. A feeling all so familiar in my marriage.
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