Hello uncle, sorry if i sounded passionate yesterday. I called out of concern for my moms health and the comment about going to report me to debo threw me off. Uncle I would appreciate coming to me directly next time, taking an approach of seeking to understand *why* banke acted that way works best for me. Like u said, u told her, banke does not act that way with you and that's because you don't treat me like i am 2 years old. Your nature is generally laid back, unintrusive and easy going. Folks who are hard driving, intrusive, domineering, always criticising/complaining, hard to please, only seeing the bad in people or situations, instigating conflict by back biting/gossiping, talk bad about people all the time, always the victim, harsh with their words, self serving or unempathetic trigger me. Mom exhibits some of the above traits. She has come over here and talked bad about how sister Buki, your wife, treated her, how seun treated her, how Aunty Biola treated her, how my d